There's a Right Way and a Wrong Way
"There's a right way and a wrong way"...when my dad muttered those words as some of his last before he died I did my best to comfort him and let him know that both God and I knew he chose the 'right way' (in his heart anyway). The next day when my brother and I were going through his stuff in storage I came across a poem done in calligraphy, framed, dated 1983 and signed by him....James Charles Primo....it was entitled "There is a Right Way and A Wrong Way"...goosebumps...tears. In 1983 I was a freshman in high school and I recall those were the beginning of some dark days for him.
We have choices in life, some so clear some hazed over in a cloud of black smoke...yet we need to choose. The poem is deep, dark and profound...I love it!
I sit and think all night till dawn,
To try and find what's right from wrong,
But then I realize by the morn,
That I'm the one that's really gone.
I start again from dawn to light,
To try to find what is wrong from right.
The time it takes is not much fun,
But in the end I'll pick from one.
If it's right or if it's wrong
We just don't know until it's done
But then again I sit some more,
Because I doubt my thoughts before.
Again I see the dawn and dusk
I wonder why I have such lust.
My feel for life is oh so great,
But yet I sit and wait and wait.
What's right is right and wrong is wrong,
I'm getting tired of the same old song.
So do for now as life goes on,
For who's to say what's right from wrong.
-JCP
It turns out I have my dads love and ability for creative writing...who knew, it actually started when I sat down to write his Eulogy. I may have mentioned in a past blog that some doors were closing and some were opening, writing a book using "Primo" as my platform is one of the open doors. A consultant just suggested to me that I blog about my journey, the Primo evolution...wow, that would really be putting it out there... I'm going to do my best. I started today by sharing one page that will be in the "Who is Primo" book!
Got something cool, profound, inspirational, courageous, motivational...please share...it could be next page!
It's sunny, beautiful and the birds are chirping....it's a beautiful thing!





Beautiful! You'll cherish this poem forever.
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Thanks Sara!
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Tan, loved this. I never knew this writing side of your dad. Funny, even now they still amaze us!
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I'm glad I shared it-- there's more where that came from-
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Great Poem! Your dad lives on through his words and through you. Your road to success in life will be filled with "right ways and wrong ways," but at least you are daring to forge a path
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Thanks! I'm starting to feel the honor of taking all of my dads "Good Stuff" and allowing his legend to live on...after all, he and I are a lot alike -- we both like being center stage, ...God willing, "Primo" will allow that for both of us ...haha. Call it daring...call it courage...I rank it right up there with strength, perseverance, and wisdom --- it's what I strive for each day!!
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Glad you understand now Tanya...
And you thought you didn't have it in you =D God is willing my dear..remember the sojourning is the answer, the question an endless plight!
kisses - Candace
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Beautifully said....as always! I'm feeling like you these days...the words just keep coming, I can't keep up! I'm even using the analogy of the butterfly when I go to work with a group of teens tonight
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